Foreigners in America
America is a nation of immigrants and legal immigration is
welcome by all. New immigrants to the
USA are asked to assimilate and become part of the American experience, the
great American melting pot.
Not all who are fortunate to immigrate to the USA fully
embrace the assimilation aspect. A few
attempt to convert Americans to resemble the hovels they slid out of.
The Roman Catholic Church I belong to has a congregation of
about 3,000 people, many of whom are immigrants to the USA. They come from Mexico, Africa, Asia, and two
with an Italian heritage (that’s me kids).
A few years ago the church announced they will hold classes
to teach people how to speak Spanish (the church is in Texas). When I questioned when they will hold classes
to teach English to those who do not speak English, I was looked at as if I was
from Mars.
Confessions (reconciliation) is held weekly, however twice a
year a huge confession service is held with about 8 to 16 priest in
attendance. This is done before Easter
Sunday and Christmas Day. I along with
fellow members of the Knights of Columbus volunteer to usher and keep the
crowds and lines orderly. One year two
ladies from Africa come to the front of the line. One lady points to the other lady stating she
needed to be in front of the line because she only spoke French. Huh? Whether she was first in line or last
her language abilities or lack of had no relevance. However because of the French only they felt
she deserved special consideration. Nonsense.
During on such reconciliation service a person from Vietnam
to complain about the crosses embedded on the ground in the floor tiles. These are used as markers for the Eucharistic
ministers where to stand during the distribution of the Holy Eucharist and
wine. His objection was when they stand
on the cross it offends his sensibilities.
He stated that “in my country” (Vietnam) the communist for force people
to stomp on the cross or face severe retribution.
I reminded the Vietnamese gentleman we were not in Vietnam
and we do not harbor such sensibilities suggesting perhaps the horrors he faced
in Vietnam be left there so he can enjoy his new life in America.
Weekday morning church services are not held in the main
sanctuary but in a smaller chapel to the side of the main church. Before weekday services those of us who help
set up before mass engage in conversation.
Once mass begins the conversations end.
After once service while I was in the parking lot talking with friends a
man who emigrated from Nigeria approached me.
He started with “In my country we do not talk at all in church.” Once again I had to remind him we are not in
his country and in the USA, especially in Texas we engag friendly dialog before
mass and are quiet during the service.
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